Hello to everyone
I recently posted a blog about something that I had read that really bothered me.
Well some where along the way a few people took what I was trying to say as I was passing JUDGEMENT. In no shape,form or fashion was I trying to do that.
I wanted to write this to try and clear the air with some who have commented and some who posted blogs thinking I might have been referring to them.
The point of my blog was questioning why a person would offer this kinda advise?Make the kinda comments made? or tell them things that will encourage them to just turn and walk away?
Why not offer words of encouragement or some positive advise?
So with that said and hopefully explained a little better?
If my post that was titled "live it before you try to teach it" has offended anyone or made them feel I was speaking about them directly. I offer you a sincere apology my words where not meant to hurt or piss anyone off.
Master JB
Decency
3 years ago
Don't apologize. You didn't piss me off, that's for sure...This is where you can voice your opinion - it is your space. If people don't like it, fuck 'em. Never apologize for expressing yourself.
ReplyDeleteJust be you!
Personally, i think that a person'g blog is a place where you are free to write what you want. We never want to "offend" people with our writings but there is always going to be someone somewhere who doesn't like or agree with your point of view.
ReplyDeleteYou wrote what you felt and to me, that is always a good thing. There are always going to be differing points of view as it pertains to the lifestyle. Please continue to write what you feel...that's what makes these blogs interesting to read.
Southern Vixen
ReplyDeleteThanks for your comment.I agree with you 100%.I just wanted to be sure that the ones that feel like I might have been refering to them knew I was not.That is the only thing I feel bad about. I still stand by my thought that the one I wrote about is living in a fairy tale not real life and is offering Bad advise.That is was and will be my opinion :)and me just being me
Master JB
In the very beginning of when I first started blogging, I was so afraid to voice any of my real opinions because I was afraid I would offend/anger someone. I wanted everyone to like me, but I got over "walking on eggshells" after a few months. lol I have angered some people, I've started some blog wars, and I can think of 3 bloggers right now that I truly despise,but all of that I've learned is just part of it because most bloggers are highly opiniated people and sometimes higly opiniated people are going to clash in their viewpoints. I totally understand wanting to clear things up, but I don't think you have anything to apologize for. This is your blog, say what you like, what you think, how you feel - whatever you want because it's your blog and it's so wonderful to have a space that's all yours that you can say whatever you like in.
ReplyDeletei agree we with the comments round here!!
ReplyDeleteone of the reasons of blogging is to be able to express our opinions or our feelings!!
that is the great thing about this, to create our own space and if in the way we find people who likes our point of view that is a plus! but not the reason to do it!!
i enjoy your blog a lot!! so please continue writing about your thoughts and opinions!!
löthianne :)
And I liked your post because I love when they stop you and get you thinking. I love when they matter to me in a personal way. When I wrote about it not being me - and qualifying with I hope not/judgement... - it was simply to make sure any readers knew I was neither defending myself nor blasting you. I am sorry if you felt attacked. I did not, by your words. I felt moved. Thank you. Cleo
ReplyDeleteAlovelypet
ReplyDeleteThank you for your kind words of support.It is really nice to see folks took what I had to say as just my thoughts not as passing judgement. Thank you again and I hope your Master and little one are feeling better.
Master JB
Ariel
ReplyDeleteI wanted to thank you for commenting. Yes your right I should not have to walk on "egg shells". It is my little spot in the world to just be me and I will learn in time to be just that Me lol. thanks again
Master JB
Lothianne
ReplyDeleteWell I did try to get the O right lol but didn't. Thank you for your comment.I have to agree that if people like what I write about or my thoughts then that is a plus. But I know there will always be someone who will feel differently. I just have to learn to deal with it. Thanks again
Master JB
Cleo
ReplyDeleteThank you for reading my post and seeing that neither Me nor butterfly was referring to you or your Master.With that said you and your Master don't live in a fantasy/day dream you both live in reality. We never felt like you were defending yourself or blasting back at us.But you are the main reason I felt the need to set the record straight.Please let your Master know we would like to Thank him and all of our service men and woman for all they do and the sacrifices they make to keep our country safe.Thank you again for your comment.
Master JB