Showing posts with label judement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label judement. Show all posts

Friday, May 8, 2009

OMG here we go again

Hello to all
                   forgive me for any miss spellings I am fucking pissed. Butterfly's step mom had the balls if you will to call her at work and tel her she found the answer to a question she ask two fucking weeks ago.
Yes i am serious as a fucking heart attak. As yall may know it came up during their ladies day out about our girl child being gay this has been known for some time now.
Well it seems that the step mom just cant let it go write it off and learn to deal with it so every chance she gets she makes a stab at butterfly about it.(this has been going on before I came into the picture.)
Anyway two weeks ago they where having lunch and sure as shit step mom brings up the topic of girl child being gay and going to burn in hell yada yada yada.
So very sarcasticly butterfly says ''Do you really think that?'' and ''Just stop right now I don't want to discuss my child and where she will spend eternity".
So she stoped and then ten mins or so later here she comes again talking about it butterfly was fucking pissed.She came home all upset crying litterly made her fucking sick. She was just now getting over all of this and then comes a phone call.
For what ever stupid fucking reason the step mom calls her at work(a place butterfly can not raise her voice or give her real feelings) and says she found out the answer to the question she ask on there last lunchin.
So butterfly not thinking about it ask what was that and OMG here we go again.
The stupid step mom finally says well I was calling to see if you wanted to go to lunch tomrrow but I guess it is a good thing I did not.
WOW what the fuck how in the world did you come up with that idea so fast? I told butterly that woman is fucking EVIL period.
Ok I am off of here so when butterfly gets home I can be calm cool and have a shoulder for her to lean on.
Thank you all who bother to read this. If you dont I would understand.
                                                                                                                             Master JB

Thursday, April 9, 2009

I offer a sincere apology to A/all

Hello to everyone

I recently posted a blog about something that I had read that really bothered me.

Well some where along the way a few people took what I was trying to say as I was passing JUDGEMENT. In no shape,form or fashion was I trying to do that.

I wanted to write this to try and clear the air with some who have commented and some who posted blogs thinking I might have been referring to them.

The point of my blog was questioning why a person would offer this kinda advise?Make the kinda comments made? or tell them things that will encourage them to just turn and walk away?

Why not offer words of encouragement or some positive advise?

So with that said and hopefully explained a little better?

If my post that was titled "live it before you try to teach it" has offended anyone or made them feel I was speaking about them directly. I offer you a sincere apology my words where not meant to hurt or piss anyone off.
Master JB

Sunday, April 5, 2009

LIVE IT BEFORE YOU TRY TO TEACH IT

Hello everyone
I read a blog this morning that really did not set well with me.
Let me get right to the point here. I read a blog about this slave who is what I like to call a "weekender" kinda slave. No I am not trying to belittle anyone I realize long distance relationship do exist.
(I am just making the point of if your not 24/7 then how can you advise anyone else who is?)

So when a weekender slave writes a blog more or less telling other slaves that live a 24/7 lifestyle.
That if you struggle with your submission then maybe this lifestyle is not for you?
That if you question your M/s relationship then maybe this lifestyle is not for you?
That if you have anger towards your Master then maybe this lifestyle is not for you?
That if your selfish then maybe this lifestyle is not for you?
That if you have dissatisfaction with your Master then maybe this lifestyle is not for you?

Yes I know she has watched to much Blue Collar Comedy Tour.

Then goes on to make comments like

"Then I see some who question whether they even LIKE being a slave?"

"But when the same girls blog over and over about their problems with slavery, I would think that eventually, they will either decide they ARE or ARE NOT a slave."

" Girls, MAYBE you just like the kink? MAYBE you just like it rough from time to time? MAYBE you are not a slave?"

" And, if you are not, IT’s OKAY. Just figure it out for yourselves and stop being miserable 4 days out of 7."

" It’s my thought that most of these girls would be totally bored with just a regular “Joe blow,” and a few weeks out of their collar would cure them, one way or the other."

"If you are unhappy in your relationship, or if you don’t think it’s for you, get out.
Try that vanilla man across town, you’ll know for sure then, right?"


Hmm! folks that sure puzzles me about how a "TRUE SLAVE" could tell others to just take off your collar and go fuck good Ole Joe across town and see if that cures your problem of submission.

I think maybe this weekend slave should think about what it means to be a slave vs being a vanilla wife/girl friend who gets horny and drives across town to fuck good Ole Joe when her Ole man is out of town.

Most all of the blogs I read the slaves are married to their Masters. My point being that this so called slave is telling others to just go out and throw away everything they have worked for.

Now I don't know how everyone else feels but I don't think fucking the guy or girl across town is going to strengthen your submission to your Master?

I realize we are all different and we are all at different levels in this lifestyle. What I choose to do to my slave,what I allow my slave to do or not do will at times if not always differ from other Masters. I have in the past read and implemented some ideas from other Masters in our day to day relationship as Master/slave.

I have even offered advise to others that is one of the wonderful things about being able to blog with others in this lifestyle.But when a weekend slave starts to sit and judge other slaves and belittle them when she does not even live a 24/7 M/s lifestyle but proclaims she is dam near the perfect slave.

Give me a fucking break I have yet to see a perfect Master or a perfect slave.Why? because we are all human and we all make mistakes. The important thing is we must learn from those mistakes to ever have a chance to achieve being perfect.

These are my thoughts and I stand behind them. Thanks for taking the time to read my Opinions.
Master JB